In today’s Church, worship music is more accessible and diverse than ever. From traditional hymns to accepted praise songs to cutting-edge new songs, we each have our preferences. At one end of the spectrum is choir music accompanied by an organ, and on the other end is a rock band with a flawless lead vocal. And people like all of it.

But we must ask: do we truly worship, or do we simply enjoy the music?

Liking a particular style of music is a natural inclination. Certain melodies, instruments, or rhythms resonate with each one of us individually. But true worship is about falling before the presence of God and not about our musical preference. It’s about lifting our hearts and minds to God, regardless of whether the song is our “favorite.”

Jesus said in John 4:23 that “true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth.” That means worship isn’t about tempo or volume. It is about our heart and soul falling before God in a way that brings him glory. It’s about directing our affections toward God, honoring Him for who He is, and surrendering ourselves completely to His will.

If we only engage when the music fits our taste, we risk turning worship into a performance we consume rather than a gift we offer.

Let’s be people who worship not because the song is catchy, but because God is worthy.

Worship isn’t about liking the music. It’s about loving the Savior.

The longer I live as a Christian, the more open and honest I am becoming. The more willing I am to share my struggles as a believer and a pastor.

Whenever I share my thoughts and feelings of worthlessness, shame, and the issues I face in following Jesus, there is a group of Christians ready to chastise me. “You’re a pastor,” they say, “You should have your life more together than that.” These people want me to speak with the confidence and self-assurance of a person who has faith all figured out.

There is also another group of people. They will read a post I wrote or listen to a sermon I have preached, and they will message me privately or whisper to me in the back corridors of the Church, “I thought I was the only one who struggled with this,” or “I believed I was the only person who thought like that.”

What I have found is that in sharing the truth of the difficulties in my journey of faith, I am better equipped to set people free through the word and work of Jesus. Not only does dragging my own darkness into the light help me, but it also encourages others to face their issues. 

For those people who want a perfect pastor, I am not your guy. I encourage you to find a Church with a leader you can admire. But if you are broken and fighting hard to grow in your faith, then you have found your people and a leader who knows what you are struggling with and is not afraid to admit it.  

Self-loathing is a quiet but heavy burden many people carry. Scratch that. Self-loathing has been a problem I have personally struggled with throughout my life.

The internal voices whisper thoughts of worthlessness, failure, and shame relentlessly. I’m acutely aware of my flaws and shortcomings. The weight of disappointing others, falling short of the Christian example I aspire to be, and wrestling with feelings of inadequacy can feel crushing. I yearn to be better, to be liked, to become the person I know I could be, yet I often feel I’m falling short. Sometimes the weight becomes overwhelming.

As a Christian, I must continually remind myself that my worth doesn’t come from what I do. It comes from God. I am a child of God, made in His image (Genesis 1:27), and redeemed by His grace. That identity is deeper and more accurate than my self-perception.

If you’re walking this same difficult path, please know you’re not alone in this struggle. Turn to prayer in these moments. Immerse yourself in God’s Word. Most importantly, let the truth of Christ’s love drown out the lies echoing in your mind. You are not worthless. You are not too broken. You belong to Him. And that truth has the power to transform everything.

Will it be the most important thing on your to-do list?

Will it be the most urgent thing on your agenda?

Will it be the easiest activity for you to accomplish?

When you stand at the crossroads of choice, what compass guides you? Do you seek meaning that echoes through time, the adrenaline of immediate action, the sanctuary of familiar ground, or perhaps something deeper still?

Your tomorrow unfolds from today’s choices. What North Star will light your way?

Life deals us cards we never asked for. You have no control over where you were born, how wealthy your parents were, or your physical height. Your build, looks, and hair can only be manipulated in minimal ways. You may not be the smartest, have the best memory, or possess a creative gene in your body. You cannot control the opportunities that are presented to you, the way others respond to your sales pitch, or the economic benefits that come with your chosen profession. There truly is an infinite list of things in your life that are beyond your power to control.

Yet this doesn’t render us powerless, far from it.

You can control your attitude, the expression on your face, and the kindness in your voice. You can choose to show grace, mercy, and love over vengeance, revenge, and judgment. You can choose your response to everything the world throws at you. You can accept responsibility for your actions and make different choices as you learn and grow. There is an equally infinite list of things in your life that are well within your power to control.

For those who follow Christ, this power carries special significance. Rather than pointing fingers at the world’s brokenness, we’re called to be agents of transformation who bring hope, healing, and God’s goodness into every situation we encounter.

Being a pastor is a lot like being a parent. It’s not just about teaching on Sundays or organizing church events. It’s about caring deeply and constantly for the people I lead. I want the absolute best for them in every way. I pray for their strength, family, future, and their walk with Jesus. I want every single person under my care to grow not only in knowledge, but also in love, faith, and character. I want their life to be full of purpose, joy, and peace.

I dream of them developing deep, godly relationships. I long to see them walk in freedom and use their gifts to make a difference in the world. I care about the decisions they’re making because I know how important those decisions are for their soul.

Sometimes it might feel like your pastor is pushing too hard or expecting too much. But it’s not about pressure, it’s about love. I pray and hope that people will make choices that align with God’s will, because I’ve seen what happens when they do, and I’ve also seen the pain when they don’t.

The spiritual and emotional investment I have in my congregation runs deeper than most realize. I carry their burdens, celebrate their victories, and sometimes grieve over the decisions they make. This doesn’t come from duty or pastoral obligation; it flows from my heart, as I want to see people experience the love and grace of Jesus as I have.

Seeing people grow, make good choices, and know Jesus personally are the things that matter most to me, more than anyone might ever know.

It’s never been easier to find spiritual advice. A quick search yields thousands of voices from preachers, influencers, bloggers, and “experts” of every possible background. They are offering opinions on everything from how to pray to what God thinks about your latest decision. Some speak with wisdom. Others speak loudly. A few are entirely wrong.

In a world of overwhelming content, it’s easy to confuse popularity with truth. But just because something is trending doesn’t mean it’s trustworthy. Proverbs 3:5 reminds us, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” That includes leaning too heavily on the internet.

God’s word remains our anchor. While podcasts, blogs, and reels can point us in the right direction, they should never replace Scripture or the guidance of the Holy Spirit. If you find yourself drowning in a sea of spiritual advice, step back. Open your Bible. Pray. Seek God’s voice above all others.

He still speaks. And he’s not competing for clicks and likes.

I have developed a habit over the past 20 years that I have found effective for me, and it might help you.

Whenever I come across what I think is a quality blog article or Social Media post, I save it. Because I use a blog reader called “Feedly,” this is usually easy to do. Although sometimes I have to print random pieces and then put them in a physical file. So, step one is to read and save all material that looks useful.

Then, about every six months, I go back through and reread all my saved material. Often, I find that upon second reading, the information resonates differently. Perhaps this is due to my mood on the day I read them or simply the line of thinking I was on at the time, but many articles do not seem to “click” when I read them later. 

Additionally, many things have a limited shelf life. Due to something happening in my life, at my Church, or even in our nation, I saved a post, and later it has almost no value because life has changed (think of everything written during the COVID pandemic). So, step two, delete everything that doesn’t currently resonate.

That leaves me with articles that have quality content that transcends the moment they were written. They contain some biblical or psychological truth that remains constant, regardless of what I am feeling or going through. These are the posts that I keep and revisit every year to reread.

Great material will always be great. Purge everything else repeatedly.

I came across this while searching the internet. Good stuff.

John Charles Ryle, better known as J. C. Ryle, was an English Anglican bishop and preacher of the late 19th century. He said this:

“We shall do well to bear in mind this fact. Ordination does not confer the saving grace of the Holy Spirit. Ordained men are not necessarily converted. We are not to regard them as infallible, either in doctrine or in practice. We are not to make popes or idols of them, and insensibly put them in Christ’s place. We are to regard them as ‘men of like passions’ with ourselves, liable to the same infirmities, and daily requiring the same grace. We are not to think it impossible for them to do very bad things, or to expect them to be above the reach of harm from flattery, covetousness, and the world. We are to prove their teaching by the word of God, and follow them so far as they follow Christ, but no further. Above all, we ought to pray for them, that they may be successors not of Judas Iscariot, but of James and John. It is a dreadful thing to be a minister of the Gospel! Ministers need many prayers.”

In a world where rudeness is often mistaken for strength, the practice of courtesy can feel outdated or weak. However, for followers of Jesus, true strength is demonstrated through humility, love, and even courtesy. Being polite and having a positive attitude is a rare gift a follower of Jesus can bring into the world.

Courageous courtesy means choosing gentleness when harshness is easier. It’s standing firm in truth without tearing others down. It’s listening before speaking and honoring people even when we disagree. Jesus modeled this beautifully. He spoke boldly, yet treated others, including his enemies, with dignity and compassion.

Philippians 2:3 reminds us, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” That takes courage. It takes the Spirit of Christ in us.

In today’s divided world, Christians should be people who shine with kindness. Let’s show the kind of courtesy that comes from conviction, not convenience. That’s not weakness. That’s the strength of Jesus.