Saying the Same Thing Over and Over Again

I was recently talking with my wife and I told her that I feel like I am saying the same things over and over again. After that conversation, I began to truly reflect on my ministry. It does appear that over the years I have returned to one of these few topics.

1. People Need Jesus as Their Lord and Savior.
Christians are people who have based their life on the person of Jesus Christ. Nothing more and nothing less. All of us need the forgiveness we find in Jesus. Then when we find ourselves moving away from him, we need to come home where we find a second chance. The other side of making Jesus your savior is that you make him your Lord. That means you need to live the life he taught about and demonstrated while he walked on the earth. We are to follow Jesus in every way.

2. You Can Understand the Bible and You Need to Try Regularly.
I am a Bible guy. I believe it. I trust it. I read it. I teach it. I firmly believe that it holds the answers we are looking for in our lives. It challenges us. It shapes our thinking. It is vital for faith and practice. Unfortunately, most people do not read it. Some think they can’t read it and others simply will not read it. I believe spiritual growth is connected to our use of the Bible.

3. Transformation is a Daily, Gradual, Lifelong Process.
The daily disciples of prayer, bible reading, worship and reading are the key to a transformed life. There are a thousand ways to do each one, but each one needs to be practiced regularly. My dream would be that people would spend a few minutes each day in some sort of a growth activity. Each day will accumulate until one day we are amazed at the results.

4. Everyone Needs to Be a Part of a Church
I do not believe that the Church is an optional part of the Christian life. God purposely puts us together with other believers to help us grow. The people of the Church will help lead us in worship, they will teach us, they will encourage and challenge us. The Church is a place where we can serve with others for a Godly purpose. The people of the Church will love us, hurt us, ignore us and embrace us. All of those things will help us to grow into mature Christians.

5. Invest Time and Energy in Your Family
Your spouse is important. You need to give them time, energy and love. Give them more than leftovers. Your children are also important. They need teaching, correction, and love. Give them more than leftovers. Neither of these is God. Put God first in everything and teach your family to do the same. Then give them the best of yourself and you will be blessed in every way.

These five topics have been the theme of my ministry for over 20 years. In fact, I speak on these five things over and over. You will probably get tired of hearing me speak about them. That’s okay. You need to hear it … and so do I.

Who Am I to Judge?

I once read an article that stated the most popular verse in the Bible used to be John 3:16. Then it explained that the new most popular verse was “Do not judge.” I do not remember where I read it or who was the author, but it has lodged itself in my brain for a long time now.

Three things bothered me about the article.

One – I wonder how many people even know where the verse that says “Do not judge” is found? (It is in Matthew 7:1 and Luke 6:37)

Two – How exactly do you measure this study to see if it is true? I believe the article did a bunch of internet searches but that would only give you a limited window. Most of the information had to be based on personal experience and assumptions.

Three – The Bible says a lot about judgment and this is only one verse. There is actually a great deal we need to know about Biblical judgment.

1. Christians are not to offer eternal judgment.
Judgment belongs to the Lord. One day he will judge the living and the dead. Numerous verses underline this truth to us. It is not our job to condemn anyone to hell or to commend anyone to heaven. God is the judge and everyone needs his grace.

2. Christians can make judgments about another Christian’s ungodly behavior.
The Apostle Paul writes this in 1 Corinthians 5:12 (NIV) “What business is it of mine to judge those outside the church? Are you not to judge those inside?” The context is about a man living in sexual immorality. The Church was not to tolerate this ungodly behavior but to point it out so the man might change.

3. Christian judgement runs both ways.
The passage that follows Matthew 7:1 “Do not judge, lest you be judged” says, “For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” After that, Jesus gives an analogy of removing the log out of our own eye before helping to remove the speck out of someone else’s eye.
I believe Jesus wants us to understand the hypocrisy of judging someone about an issue when we have a bigger problem with the same issue. But, if we have that problem under control then we are to help someone else with their struggles. I must first fix my own issues before I can help other people.

4. Christian judgment is purely for spiritual growth.
The reason I might point out another Christians flaws is not to make me feel superior or to make them feel like a failure. My goal is not to expose them to public humiliation. My only goal in pointing out someone else’s struggle is so that they will address it and grow in their faith.

Be clear, I am not advocating anyone go around with a sense of superiority to others pointing out all their sins. I am saying that Christians need to help each other by offering grace-filled judgments of the sins in other people’s lives. If you know I am at fault, in Jesus name, please let me know so that I can fix it.

I know when most people quote this verse it is because they do not want you to look into their lives too deeply. The verse actually means the opposite. Christians should be looking in the mirror at their own spiritual issues and helping others to do the same. I say, “Judge me, so that I can be more like Christ.”

Two Very Different Roads

I am not sure where I heard it the first time. That is okay because no one is sure where the phrase originated. Some say it has been around since 1100 AD and yet it did not actually appear in print until 1855. I usually credit my mother for first introducing this phrase into my life since she has always been full of wit and wisdom expressed in funny little phrases.

No matter who brought it into my life it has been a recurrent theme when living out my faith. The phrase is simply, “The Road to Hell is Paved with Good Intentions.”

The meaning is pretty straightforward. Most people have a mind and heart filled with the best of intentions. We want to live a righteous life. We want to read our Bibles, pray fervently and live lives of service. The reality is often far different. Our intentions never make it into reality and the life of faith we planned to live disappears into the mist of good intentions. That journey from good intentions that doesn’t stop at action only leads to destruction.

I continually remind myself of this truth as I make plans for the future. My intentions are not the measure of my faith. My actions are how I will be judged. I recently learned that some people have added a second part to that old phrase. They say, “The road to hell is paved with good intentions but the road to heaven is paved with good works.”

It’s Monday and I am looking upon another week. I have lots of good things that I would like to do. I really intend to do them. Maybe you feel the same way.

The real question is which direction will your week lead? Only your actions will tell.

Adrian Christian Church Stuff

Three or Four times a year I use my blog to inform people about the working of the Church I lead. I apologize to everyone who does not attend here, but it is a necessary part of leadership. So here it goes …

1. Nursery Changes –
We have an ever increasing number of children who qualify for our nursery which is meant for ages 4 and under. Because of this, we are changing rooms in the Church to better accommodate the growth. We are now going to have a larger nursery located by the Children’s Church area. We are also trying to divide the infants from the toddlers. So if you have a small child, please be looking for the new room with new paint and new toys on Sunday. Also, if you would like to help in this area please let Jaime (our Children’s minister) or me know.

2. New Sermon Series –
This Sunday I am starting a new series called “I’ve Got a Friend Who …”
October 23 “Wonders About the Existence of God”
October 30 “Needs to Know Jesus”
November 6 “Wonders Why Bad Things Happen” (Daylight Savings – Fall Back)
November 13 “Is Making Poor Choices”
November 20 “Has Questions about Heaven”

3. Operation Christmas Child –
On Tuesday, October 25th we will finish filling the boxes and getting everything ready to deliver. I will be at the Church building from 5:00 till 8:00 or until we are done. I will buy some pizza for everyone working since it will be happening during dinner. If you have items to donate, please bring those ASAP. If you would rather donate money, that would be even better. On Monday a group of us are going to purchase toys (the main item we need) to be ready for Tuesday. I hope several of you can make it on Tuesday night.

4. Membership Class –
On Sunday, October 30th I will be hosting a membership class for the Church. This class is for everyone who is already a member along with those who want to discover membership for the first time. It starts at 5:30 and runs until 8:00 pm. I teach for an hour and then we pause for a bigger snack and then I teach for another hour. We are going to provide childcare, but we need to know how many kids are coming. Let me know if you would like to attend.

5. Children’s Fall Party –
Also on Sunday, October 30th there will be a fall party for those in children’s church during worship. Be sure your child is registered and ready at 9:30 am for the fun and activities. Talk to Jaime for details.

Thanks for taking the time to read and may God bless you and whatever Church of which you are a part.

Bigger Than Me

One of the most wonderful things about being a pastor is that I get to partner with God. I spend my time planning and preparing each week but somehow God puts it all together in ways I can never imagine.

-The couple whose marriage is falling apart walk in the Sunday I am preaching on marriage.
-The week I speak about helping people in need, a family hears of a need while in line at the grocery store. The quickly step up and help out.
-A guest speaker is at the Church to tell about their ministry to children, while a woman is in the audience who needs to find a place for her grandson. It is a perfect fit.
-Someone’s week has been depressing and the songs that week speak directly to their emotions.
-The person who has the communion meditation that week picks the same topic and possibly text as the preacher for his sermon. Both work together in perfect harmony.
-A sermon offers a possible solution to a problem that a woman has had all week.

I could go on and on and on. Through all of my years of ministry, I continue to be amazed at the ways God puts everything together. It is a great thing to partner with him in my service.

Here is a little secret, I think he is trying to do the same thing in all of our lives. The sermon you heard, the passage you just read, the song on the radio and the person who walks by you today might in some way be connected. You may have just been exposed to something that will be helpful to you. Maybe the greater possibility is that God has spoken something into your life that you can use to help someone else.

God has a way of taking all of the seemingly random pieces of life and putting them together into one grand concerto. All we have to do is look closely to see it. I see it in my ministry and I bet you can see it in your life.

Mistake I Make as a Christian

This November I will celebrate 37 years as a Christian. I accepted Jesus as my savior when I was 7 years old on the last Sunday in November. Coming to Christ as a young boy and living with my faith through numerous life stages leading into ministry has been a unique experience. Through those years I have struggled to keep my faith just like every other believer. Frequently I find myself slipping into ruts that hurt my faith.

1. I try to live out my faith alone.
I think there are two reasons for my withdrawal from others. One, I am a natural-born introvert. I find being with a large crowd exhausting. Two, I believe a lie. The lie is that faith is a personal matter. It is meant to be lived out alone. When I try to do this, I become lonely and frustrated. I spend too much time inside my own head. I start believing the lies I tell myself.
I firmly believe that faith is something we need to experience with other people. For me, that needs to be one or two people I feel close to personally. I need to speak my thoughts and get feedback. I need to hear the truth from other people. I need people to help me on my journey.

2. I think I have it all figured out.
I have been a Christian a long time. I am a Pastor. I should have this faith thing figured out by now. I mean, I have heard some of the same Bible stories a thousand times. I should know this stuff by heart. When my thoughts get like this I find that I quit reading my Bible, I quit listening to teachers and I quit reading. Spiritual growth stalls and finally dies.
I firmly believe all of us have to keep learning in order to grow. None of us has everything in the Bible mastered. We have to keep reading and listening and growing.

3. I rest on my past accomplishments.

I have done a great deal for the Lord in my life. I have organized programs, I have spoken of faith repeatedly and I have even started a Church. I have probably done more by 44 years old than most people do in a lifetime. I think it is time for a rest and let some of the other people carry the weight of ministry. I have done enough.
I firmly believe that God wants us to serve him. It is easy as I get older to see it as someone else’s job. When I start thinking like this I slowly drop out of serving others for the Lord into a self-serving malaise. My faith becomes something for Sundays or whenever I attend Church. My gifts are wasted and my faith stalls and stagnates. I think we need to keep serving – to stop focusing on ourselves by helping others. It forces us to trust God and it utilizes my gifts and abilities. Serving stretches my faith and keeps me growing.

Every Christian can easily slip into one of these ruts. I know they have been ongoing traps for me. They catch me and won’t let go until my faith is weak and frail. For me, I have to continually work hard to keep my faith active and growing. Maybe these are not your struggles, but they are mine and maybe like me you need to fight back to keep your faith alive.