Through the years, I have understood that what I do as a preacher on Sunday morning is vital to a Church. Preparing to preach, planning a worship experience, and ensuring all the pieces come together into one functioning team are all part of my job.

In the past few years, I have pushed myself to step out of my shell and become better at dealing with people, especially on Sunday mornings. I have listened to lectures, read articles, and learned to be better with people. Now, I do everything within my power to connect with guests who come to worship on Sunday mornings.

One thing I have learned over the last 12 months is that while people like a friendly preacher when they come to Church for the first time, my encounters matter very little. Upon investigating the results of my Sunday connections, I heard a similar phrase used several times. People said, “Yeah, but you are paid to be friendly.” Guests know that I work for the Church, and if it is successful, it reflects on me. That, in turn, forces me to be kind to everyone who walks through the doors. “Of course, you are nice. That is your job.”

I suppose I could be upset about this, but I choose to see it as an opportunity. That means the Church’s connection to guests is not in my hands. Instead, it is the work of everyone to make the new people feel welcome. Every single volunteer and attendee represents the Church in their interactions.

The success of a Church in reaching people for Jesus is connected to the friendliness experienced by every person who attends. Perhaps, the people who show kindness simply out of the goodness of their hearts are the most significant factor in a Church community leading people to faith in our Savior.