I find that most Christians have little concern over those who are bound for a Godless eternity. That is, until it is someone in their family, then everything changes.

When the prodigal is your son or daughter, it hurts beyond words. When it is your sister or brother plunging themselves into destruction, it tears you apart inside. When your mom or dad is sitting in the hospital bed, and you have no clue if they will be in heaven, it rips your heart out. 

What if the people in the Church cared about everyone like they were a part of their family?

Maybe then we could reach more people for Jesus, including those you genuinely love.