Together Time

I do not know the context of this quote, but I have heard it repeated across numerous platforms. It is attributed to motivational speaker Jim Rohn. He stated, “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” It is frequently connected to the line, “Show me your friends, and I will show you your future.”

Writer David Burkus argues that his statement is incorrect. It is not because it contains a factual error but because it is too restrictive to say just five people. He argues that research indicates you are the cumulative result of all the people you surround yourself with regularly.

The people you spend time around, family, friends, co-workers, and neighbors, will ultimately impact your perspectives, beliefs, and ultimately your actions.

If that is true, the follow-up question for a believer is simple; “Are the people in your life leading you toward spiritual maturity?” What kind of people are you surrounding yourself with as a Christian?

Most Churches get people in their doors for one, two, or maybe even three hours a week. That means, even for the most committed followers of Jesus, of the 168 hours we get each week, we have 165 that other people influence.

Who is shaping your life? Take time to assess the circle of influence around you because maybe it is time to add some new people and remove others if you are serious about your faith.

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