The Church is here to help you grow spiritually until you reach maturity in the faith.
The Church community can provide you with people, programs, and pathways to help you become like Jesus. They select leaders who care for others. They organize programs to help you know the Bible, connect to other believers, and serve with your talent. They can help to point you down the right path in times of struggle and suffering. They want the best for you in every area of life, especially in your relationship with God.
That is all the Church can do. They can make the resources available for everyone to become complete in Jesus. The rest is up to the individual.
One way to help yourself in your walk of faith is to read the Church’s bulletin, look at the website, and follow its social media. The congregation you attend probably has something happening that will help you grow if only you participate.