She described her small group to me, and I listened and thought, “That sounds awful.” The longer I leaned into her story, the more I realized it was meeting a need in her life that I did not have in mine.

Small groups and Bible studies come in all shapes and sizes while meeting a variety of needs.

Some groups gather and open the door to possible new friendships. Other groups are for in-depth study of scripture and involve homework. Still, others provide a place for the practical application of the sermon.

Every group has its place in the life of a Church. The trouble comes when people attend one, thinking they will get something, and it is designed for something else.  

For example, the group this person described was people who were already believers gathering and sharing ideas upon which they already all agreed. It was a few individuals who were seeking affirmation of their faith as a way to encourage one another. This is not the type of group I need in my life, and if I went, I fear I would be sadly disappointed. 

One essential question to ask yourself as you try to connect at a Church is, “What type of group do I need to help me grow as a believer?” Then, choose one that matches your needs and will help you on your spiritual journey.

Not all Church groups are for everyone, but for everyone, there is a Church group.