This Sunday is Father’s Day. Like so many others, it is always a bittersweet day. It reminds me of the blessing God has poured into my life in the form of four sons. It also reminds me that my dad is gone, and there is an empty space in my life.

Yet, there is a part of him in everything I do.

I can hear his phrases and expressions in the way I talk to people. My obsession with details and ability to be prepared for any situation are the result of my upbringing. My fishing knowledge and skills are the result of spending hours in the boat with him. My sense of humor was greatly influenced by watching comedians on TV together. The list of ways he impacted my life could go on and on.

The one influence worth mentioning to everyone is his faith. He loved Jesus and tried to live for him. He was not perfect, but he showed me that God can transform us for the better and redeem the parts that change slowly. He taught me to love the Bible and to try and teach it to others. He showed me Christian leadership in the Church and the home.

A father’s influence is one of the most powerful factors in a young person’s life. I am thankful that my dad followed Jesus. That part of him lives on in everything I do. I hope that many of you had a Godly male presence in your life. Also, maybe at this time of year, it is important to remind yourself that the way you lead your family will live on in your children long after you are gone.