What is your normal behavior like?

Are you usually loud and aggressive? Do you see yourself as quieter and more reserved?

Are you outgoing and involved in everything? Would you say you are more introverted?

Do you like to be in control and have the final say? Are you someone who goes along with the crowd and is generally agreeable?

There are a whole host of ways that you act that might be considered your default settings. In other words, you behave this way the majority of the time.

Here is a little secret you need to know. Your most extraordinary power is when you behave outside of your norm.

When a quiet person gets loud, it means something significant.

When an introvert shows up to your party, it demonstrates hidden emotions.

When a more controlling person allows someone else to take the lead, it is a sign of respect.

By contrast, when a person yells incessantly, it means very little.

Knowing your default settings will help you to unlock the most powerful tools in your toolkit.