Be fully aware that you are only hearing part of the story. Every story has multiple layers.

There are hidden backstories. Different perspectives impact interpretations. There is the mental distortion that comes from varying experiences.

Take everything you hear with a hint of skepticism. If possible, go to the source. Ask other people who were there for their insights. Gather information before you draw conclusions.

Because Churches are a community of people, they are often known for sharing stories with one another that paint themselves in a positive light and others in the dark. However, reality is not always so black and white.

Cultivate discernment and empathy when encountering such narratives. Recognize that complex situations seldom have simple explanations.