Today is day 19,181 of my life. Most of the sand in my hourglass has fallen to the bottom, and I have no idea how many more grains remain on top. I am hopeful for several because I love my family, but I am also praying for only a few left as I desperately want to see Jesus.

I approach each day with a desire to learn, grow, and do things as a follower of Jesus. Here are a few things I have learned in the past year.

-Happiness is a choice. Each day, I have to tell myself over and over to be happy for all the ways God has blessed my life. Happiness is found in gratitude.

-If you find a great deal on a clearance item, buy at least two. Keep one for yourself and give the rest to people you care about.

-Don’t hold onto objects because they have sentimental value alone. Find value in people and experiences, and let go of all the junk you are hoarding.

-Real, deep, meaningful friendships are of greater value than gold. If you have one, treat that person as your most prized possession.

-God is working; even in the details, there is absolutely no reason to worry.

-Be the person to others that you want them to be to you. No one may reciprocate, but God sees and knows what you are doing.

-Do something every day that you enjoy – simply because you enjoy it.

-It is hard to be positive as an overthinker because so many things can go wrong, but make an effort to be positive anyway.

Some people like to talk about their problems rather than work on them. It gives them a reason to be the topic of conversation and makes them feel connected.

-What you genuinely believe is seen in where you spend your time and money. It has very little to do with what you say.

-The forgiveness of God is the greatest asset to any life. I am thankful for it every day.