For years, I’ve contemplated the true meaning of love from a Biblical perspective. In a world where “love” is often misunderstood or oversimplified, there’s a profound need to define it clearly and accurately.

I’ve come to understand love as this: “Love is a conviction that can spark emotion but invariably manifests in positive action.”

This definition encompasses three essential elements. First, love is fundamentally a conviction – a deliberate choice, a mindful decision about how we view and value another person or entity. It embodies commitment and dedication that transcends circumstance.

The second element acknowledges love’s emotional dimension. While emotions can exist independently, and true love can operate without feelings, authentic love has the power to touch our deepest core. It resonates within our hearts and soul, often stirring profound emotional responses as a natural consequence.

The third and crucial component is action. When I profess love for my wife, that declaration must be reflected in my behavior. Because love begins as a conviction, we can act lovingly even when emotions aren’t present. Conversely, mere claims of love without corresponding actions reveal an absence of genuine love.

As we celebrate Valentine’s Day, we’re reminded that love deserves recognition and expression. This occasion invites everyone – regardless of relationship status – to demonstrate love through meaningful actions. Perhaps the most profound expression of love is to find someone today and show them someone cares and that they aren’t alone in this world.