Last week, I went to my mother’s house and helped her celebrate her 90^th birthday. I was able to spend about three days with her, visiting and helping out around the house. She and I were able to clean up her yard, get her flower gardens planted and ready for the year, along with me getting her shower fixed up for her.

Why did I take my vacation to do all that? There are three reasons. One, I love my mother, and I want to bless her life as much as she has blessed mine through the years. Two, I want to obey the word of the Lord and honor my mother. Three, I want to leave a legacy for my boys.

Based on family history, there is a good chance that I am going to meet Jesus sometime before my wife. I want my four boys to all have a model to show them how to honor their mother. It is more than just throwing money at issues. It is about spending time with her, celebrating with her, and connecting on a personal level.

I may not have been the best son when I was young, but I am working hard to finish strong. And I want my boys to follow my lead when their mother is forced to face life without me. Usually, example is the best teacher, and I want my boys to see a son who cares for his mother when they look at me.