The Cambridge Dictionary defines petulance as “the quality of being easily annoyed and complaining rudely like a child.” It’s that sharp irritability that flares when life doesn’t bend to our expectations. When someone derails our carefully laid plans. When a colleague receives the recognition we believe should be ours. When God’s response to our prayers doesn’t match what we had in mind. So we lash out, simmer in resentment, pull away, or sulk.

Petulance is pride in disguise. It says, “I deserve better.” It insists, “Things should go my way.” It whispers, “My will should be done.” And that is where it clashes violently with the gospel.

Paul writes, “Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility consider others more significant than yourselves” (Philippians 2:3). Petulance can’t live in the same heart where Christ reigns. His Spirit produces patience, gentleness, and self-control – No petty moodiness. No sulking. No bitterness. No entitled spirit.

Petulance may seem like a minor sin, but it’s too destructive to overlook. It sabotages our ability to love deeply, live with joy, and walk in humility. As we mature in Christ, our hearts must shed these childish patterns of behavior. When God truly transforms us, it shows, even in our disposition.