In a world where rudeness is often mistaken for strength, the practice of courtesy can feel outdated or weak. However, for followers of Jesus, true strength is demonstrated through humility, love, and even courtesy. Being polite and having a positive attitude is a rare gift a follower of Jesus can bring into the world.

Courageous courtesy means choosing gentleness when harshness is easier. It’s standing firm in truth without tearing others down. It’s listening before speaking and honoring people even when we disagree. Jesus modeled this beautifully. He spoke boldly, yet treated others, including his enemies, with dignity and compassion.

Philippians 2:3 reminds us, “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.” That takes courage. It takes the Spirit of Christ in us.

In today’s divided world, Christians should be people who shine with kindness. Let’s show the kind of courtesy that comes from conviction, not convenience. That’s not weakness. That’s the strength of Jesus.