Being a pastor is a lot like being a parent. It’s not just about teaching on Sundays or organizing church events. It’s about caring deeply and constantly for the people I lead. I want the absolute best for them in every way. I pray for their strength, family, future, and their walk with Jesus. I want every single person under my care to grow not only in knowledge, but also in love, faith, and character. I want their life to be full of purpose, joy, and peace.
I dream of them developing deep, godly relationships. I long to see them walk in freedom and use their gifts to make a difference in the world. I care about the decisions they’re making because I know how important those decisions are for their soul.
Sometimes it might feel like your pastor is pushing too hard or expecting too much. But it’s not about pressure, it’s about love. I pray and hope that people will make choices that align with God’s will, because I’ve seen what happens when they do, and I’ve also seen the pain when they don’t.
The spiritual and emotional investment I have in my congregation runs deeper than most realize. I carry their burdens, celebrate their victories, and sometimes grieve over the decisions they make. This doesn’t come from duty or pastoral obligation; it flows from my heart, as I want to see people experience the love and grace of Jesus as I have.
Seeing people grow, make good choices, and know Jesus personally are the things that matter most to me, more than anyone might ever know.