I heard a pastor with a background as a hospital chaplain say that one of the most significant lessons he had to learn was that he did not have to offer his advice to families in crisis. Our opinions and instructions provide very little for people who are walking through unspeakable trauma.

He stated the best thing he had to offer people was his presence. There is enormous power in sitting in silence with people whose hearts are broken. Giving them the time and permission to vent, shout, or let out their hurt is cathartic. A shoulder to cry on, or a simple hug, or a quietly uttered prayer can bring oxygen into the room so that people can breathe again.

The beautiful part is that everyone has what it takes to provide this for others. You don’t need to be a Bible College graduate or have a master’s degree in counseling. You do not need deep Biblical knowledge or the ability to defend your faith. All you need to do is show up.

Today and this week, there is someone you know who could use your presence in their life. Not your words of wisdom, grand advice, or theoretical solutions. They need you, and that is all. And your willingness to go to them will speak volumes.