Thoughts Verses Repetition

There is a difference between thinking and being able to repeat what someone else told you.

Thinking requires you to engage information and mentally process ideas. It requires us to search for material that supports or disproves our conclusions. Thinking means having conversations that stimulate the mind with differing views and coordinating concepts. Thinking is complex and can take us years to get our thoughts right.

Repetition masquerades as thinking. Someone might hear a piece of information and then repeat it as an answer to an issue. This does not require anything from us, merely the ability to remember a few facts or a quote that we agree with in principle. Repetition can make for good grades or a stellar trivia participant, but requires little of us and can be achieved with a quick internet search.

The issues that this raises are multifaceted. Does the person I am talking to really think this way, or are they parroting information? How do I get people to think deeply about something I care about, like the Christian faith, without settling for trivial beliefs?

The challenge for people today is to develop their thinking. Thinking leads to convictions. And convictions will change behavior.

One reason people continue to act in ungodly ways is that they have never honestly thought about it.

Stuck in the Vacuum

There is a rug in my house that I know will get stuck in the vacuum cleaner every time I go over it. It is an indisputable fact that if I attempt to clean it with the rest of the carpet, it will not end well.

Do you want to know how many times I have sucked that thin little floor covering up?

Every. Single. Time.

My brain knows it will happen. In my heart, I know this will not end well. But I try to get as close to it as I can without it happening. I get right up next to the edge and move slowly down the side. Then, inevitably, I catch it in the brushes, and it gets pulled into the vacuum.

Sin is enticing. Even when we know the consequences can be devastating, we often try to come as close as possible, hoping nothing bad will happen this time.

Perhaps for a time or two, we are fine. Then we get confident in our behavior, and suddenly there is the smell of burning rubber from the belt, the squeal of the motor, and everything comes to a halt.

The question should never be, “How close can we get to sin and get away with it?” It should be “How can we stay far enough away that we will never have an issue?”

Years in the Making

The Church I lead is thriving right now. People are inviting their friends, guests are coming, people are being baptized, new people are stepping up to serve, and many have committed to praying and reading their Bibles to start the year. It is truly an exciting time to be a leader at this Church.

Here is the part of the story you need to know. I have been leading here for 11 and a half years, and it has only been in the last year and a half that things have really taken off. The first ten years were spent laying the foundation for trust, surviving Covid, restructuring leadership, and creating a culture where people invite their friends.

Our little Church may have grown exponentially, but that growth took years.

My encouragement to any Church leader who is discouraged is simply to keep doing the work. Don’t give up, for at the proper time you will reap a harvest if you do not give up.

And my encouragement to our Church is to keep doing the right things, and I am excited to see what God does in the next 10 years.

From Everyone To “My People”

One transition that happens as a Church community grows is that the group moves from a single-cell organism to a multicell organization.

When a Church is under 200 people, it is common for someone to stand up and say, “So and So is in the hospital, and they would like everyone to stop by and visit. It would also be great if everyone could send a card.” This is a totally reasonable and valid request. The majority of the community knows this person, and everyone can share their love and concern.

After a Church passes 250 in attendance, the dynamics change. Now, very few people may know this person. Their connection point is not the whole Church; rather, it is their Sunday school class, small group, or ministry team. The Church moves from being one extensive family network with a gathering every Sunday to a group of individual families ranging from 5 to 15 people who care about their immediate connections.

I know the fear, people will jump up and say, “The Church is supposed to care about every single person.” And I would argue that this happens better in a multicell group than in a large gathering. When you connect with that handful of people in authentic relationships, every person in that circle will genuinely show their concern. They will make meals, pay visits, and take care of the people in their group. After all, these are “My People.”

This is a challenging transition to make, and that is why roughly 80% of all Churches have fewer than 200 people. We like the intimate feel and the idea that everyone there cares about us. But if a Church can break through that barrier, the joy of having a handful of people who care deeply is always better than the care given by a large group of people who are mildly concerned about you.

Posting and Sharing

Before you post about our faith online, it’s worth pausing to ask yourselves: Am I actually walking this path? Am I spending time in Scripture, talking with God, giving generously, serving others, worshiping with my church family, building genuine relationships, and maturing in my faith?

God’s kingdom isn’t built on clever posts or inspirational quotes. It takes root in the hearts of those who’ve truly given their lives to Christ and are doing the hard, daily work of following him.

People can distinguish between performance and reality. They may scroll past hypocrisy without a second thought. But authenticity? That stops them in their tracks. That earns their respect. That makes them wonder if this Jesus we talk about might be for them.

Our most powerful testimony isn’t what we post; it’s how we live.

Move with the Movers

I was a new preacher when I heard John Maxwell say in a leadership lesson, “As a pastor, you need to move with the movers.”

At the time, I didn’t comprehend exactly what he was saying. As a pastor, my heart should be for all the people of the Church I lead. Everyone matters to God, and therefore, they should matter to me. I thought that, under my insightful leadership, I would help every single person grow and become the person God desires them to be. We will all move forward together.

Now, after over thirty years of ministry, I understand what he was saying. Almost unbelievably to me, some people in the Church did not want to grow spiritually; they certainly did not all want to grow numerically, and many were very content to see themselves remain the same, along with their Church family.

Occasionally, someone comes into the Church and is excited to mature as a believer. They genuinely want us to reach people with the gospel, and they have a heart for ministry. These wonderful souls wish for the Church to move forward in faith for the kingdom of God. Whenever those people arrive in a faith community, my job is to link arms with them and move this thing forward.

I still care about every single person who attends worship on Sunday morning, but I move ministry forward with the movers. I connect to the sacred few who want to see God glorified through our community. I spend time with people who desire to grow spiritually. I move with the movers.

If you want to have a closer relationship with your pastor, don’t ask him to slow down and spend time with you; get moving and you can connect as you both move forward together.

Let’s Roll

The new year is firmly underway. The new calendar is out, the new notebook has started, and I am five days into my Bible reading plan.

God has blessed me with another year to serve him to the best of my ability.

That realization brings feelings of both gratitude and responsibility. Gratitude, because every new year is a gift from God. Responsibility, because time is something we steward, not something we own. The question is never whether God will be faithful in the year ahead; rather, it is: will I be faithful with the days He places in my hands?

I don’t know what this year will hold. There will be joys I can’t yet imagine and challenges I would rather avoid. But I step into this year with confidence, not in my plans or discipline, but in the God who walks with me into every unknown.

So with open hands and a willing heart, let’s roll!

That’s A Wrap

Today is the final day of 2025. It is hard to believe how quickly this year has gone by, and yet it is over. It feels like just yesterday we were stepping into January with fresh calendars and quiet hopes, and now here we are, standing at the final page.

As I look back on the year, I remember days full of you and others that were emotionally heavy. And many of the days were ordinary. The New Testament author James tells us that our lives are like a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes (James 4:14). That truth isn’t meant to make us anxious, but to make us attentive. It invites us to notice God’s presence in the middle of our days, not just at the milestones.

There were moments this year when God’s faithfulness was evident, and moments when I had to lean heavily on faith. There were prayers answered quickly and others that are still waiting. Through it all, God has been kind even when life was not.

And now, as one year ends and another begins, I find myself both grateful and hopeful. Grateful for what God has done, what He has taught, and how He has carried me, my family, and my Church. Hopeful because the same God who was faithful in 2025 will be faithful in 2026.

So tonight, we close the book on the year. Tomorrow, by God’s grace, we turn the page. And whatever the new year holds, we step into it trusting the One who holds our time.

That’s a wrap. Thanks be to God.

Your Goals for 2026

Most people set goals for a new year. Some are big and public; others are quiet promises made only to themselves.

Here’s what I’ve noticed: few people include others in their resolutions. Goals often focus on personal growth, such as exercising, losing weight, reading more, praying more, or reading the Bible. Rarely do we commit to helping someone else grow in their faith. Even fewer choose to invest in others’ success.

As followers of Jesus, perhaps a key question to ask as we enter a new year is this: Who are you taking with you? Whose life will be better because you were part of it?

Reading Books Without a Struggle

I love to read, but time constraints have reduced the number of books I read each year. Now I also consume podcasts, blog posts, videos, and other articles alongside the books I read.

Still, over the last few years, I have developed techniques to digest 6-12 books a year without much struggle.

First, I have a few books that are structured to read one chapter a week. I have read Mark Moore’s Core 52 and Quest 52. This year, he is releasing Wisdom 52, based on Proverbs. A man named James Merritt also has several books with this format. This coming year, I will be reading the one on Proverbs and also one on the Psalms. These require 15 to 30 minutes a week, and at the end of the year, two more books are completed.

Second, I have a few books that I read a chapter a month. This is really simple: buy a book with a number of chapters divisible by twelve. You can read a 24-chapter theology book simply by reading half of a chapter a week. I pick up one or two of these and finish them by the end of the year.

Third, I select a few audiobooks to listen to on longer drives or when doing certain activities alone. On an eight-hour drive to see my mother, I usually listen to almost half a book. Do this a few times a year, and you’ll have added another 3-6 books to feed your mind.

Finally, I get involved in personal discipleship or a small group. These groups force me to read a chapter a week so that I will be ready for discussion at the next meeting. That leads to another 2-3 books a year.

I am always amazed at the end of the year when I look at the completed reading list and see a dozen or more books. All of them were completed with minimal effort.

If you were to use just one of these, by this time next year, you will have read at least one book to help you know God better. And I believe that is time well spent.