What if that thing you are saying, “I’m not very good at it,” is actually a learned skill?
What if you could learn to have better conversations, even with people you don’t know? What if you could learn to be more social despite being an introvert? What if you could become a better friend and connect with people deeply? What if you could get better at gift giving and possibly gift receiving? What if you could learn the skills to become a better human and a better Christian?
I guess you would have to stop making excuses.
There are skills you can acquire to be a better person, and it is not adequate to say, “I can’t.”
The question is, “Are you willing to learn?”