People like to hide their issues, but they love to talk about other people’s shortcomings. Many of them enjoy telling their pastor.

“Did you see what she posted on Facebook?”

“Have you heard him talk to his coworkers?”

“Did you hear what they did last weekend at that party?”

“Have you noticed that they …”

As a believer, I am called to live for God alone. But I must also be aware of the example I am leaving for others. Some people are forming their ideas about God and Christians based on what they see in you.

No one expects you to be perfect. No one. There is a difference between struggling with sin and living in sin. People notice your actions and whether they align with your faith.

Through the years, numerous believers have told me, “They are trying to be an example to others.” My response is usually, “What kind of example is that?” Because there are both positive and negative ones, and you need to be clear on what kind you are truly leaving.