The words hung in the air like the smell of sour milk in the kitchen. She said, “I know what I should do, I just do feel like doing it right now.”
How do you respond to that?
Let me encourage you with one little thought today. Do the right thing no matter how you feel about it.
Do the right thing for your spouse … no matter how you feel about them or yourself.
Do the right thing for your parents … no matter how you feel about them.
Do the right thing for your children … no matter how you feel about them right now.
Do the right thing for your neighbor … no matter how they have upset you.
Do the right thing for that person … no matter how you feel about their decisions.
You may hesitate, and it may not come naturally. Your palms may sweat, and your voice gets shaky. Your stomach may go into all out revolt. It will be okay, I promise.
Smile. Say hello. Ask how they are doing. Hug. Tell them you love them. Hold their hand. Speak kindly. Forgive. Offer grace. Send an email or text and say something nice. Go out of your way to do something helpful. Be friendly. Invest your energy in someone else. Don’t withhold your kindness to other people, especially those closest to you, just because you don’t feel like it now.
Your feelings will change. Tomorrow will look different. You will never regret doing the right thing. You will, however, regret waiting to act until it is too late.
Today is your day. Doing the right thing is within your power.